I also happen to absolutely love this video. I love the imagery, I love the woman's presence. I also love the man's determination. The visual of this video is as moving as the music and the lyrics. If they didn't win an award, they should have.
So go watch and listen and hurry back: I Will Posses Your Heart, Death Cab for Cutie
This song also has the power to make me very angry. I wrote a series of poems in response to this song a while back. (Maybe I will repost them at some future date.)
So let's take a step back, because there are times when English, I find, is horribly imprecise. German is a language of precision. There is a word for everything and if there isn't they create a fantastical compound word, which is just the word. This is a moment, where I feel being bilingual both is helpful and a struggle.
The word that I like to describe how I feel when I hear or read certain things which simultaneous draw me in like a powerful magnet and repel me, make me angry, make me uncomfortable, edgy, angsty or otherwise is:
(From dict.cc dictionary)
ADJ unbequem | unbequemer | am unbequemsten
unbequemer | unbequeme | unbequemes
unbequemster | unbequemste | unbequemstes
SYNO kritisch | unbequem | ungelegen ...